Most important things in my life

My answer to that question has been changing and changing.... like what i always say, my principles are firm, yet i always feel there is a need to reflect on it, change it whenever necessary. No one can say he know he is right, especially when it comes to perspective in life.
anyway, here is my answer for now and it has not changed for these 5 yrs already... i'm pretty sure this will remain more or less the same for the coming 20yrs. let's see what happen when i reach that age...

1- family (parents, siblings)- they are people who care about you since you are born until your spend yr last day on earth.

2- your own family (wife and children)- they are the people you will care about until your or their last day on earth...

3- career- i guess stability is important especially for a man whom many people may depend on.

4- happiness, satisfaction and self actualisation in life..- it's important to achieve this all the time. If i am not happy, how can i cheer up other people?

5- friends- no matter how close friends are, they are just friends... in time of crisis, no one is responsible for any other..any help will be purely voluntary,,,. it will be nice to find really good buddy friends, but such relationship has not obligation and responsibility involved... i am luncky to have friends who always help me in sch...